Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Christmas Cheer

Hello everyone – a belated Merry Christmas and an early Happy New Year to you all! Now that Christmas is over, my second round of Korean classes are over, and I’ve wrapped up my third semester of teaching, I have a little more time to relax.

Not too much time though, of course, as I start teaching winter camp tomorrow – at least I had a few days with no responsibilities. I’ve had to be at work the past three days, but just four hours a day, and then I had the rest of the day to do as I pleased. I started swimming again, now that I have the time, so I’ve enjoyed getting in longer afternoon workouts and then still having an evening of productivity when I’m done.

Unfortunately, I got hit with a cold this week, so I’m afraid that will limit my New Year’s plans – I was supposed to go hiking on New Year’s Eve, but I don’t think that will happen, due to the chilly winter weather. As of now I’m not sure what I'm doing for New Year’s, but a Korean tradition is to wake up early and see the sunrise on New Year’s Day – it sounds like a neat idea, and I have definitely never gotten up that early to see the sunrise in the past, so maybe I’ll give it a try this year.

Backing up a bit to the end of the semester, this year, since I had a bit more free reign with my lessons, as a result of actually knowing what I was doing this time around, I decided to do a few extra weeks of Christmas, as it is my favorite holiday, and there are so many fun Christmas activities and ideas for lessons. My extra classes had a day of Christmas decorations to spruce up the English room, which proved to be so popular that my other regular English classes wanted to make decorations too, which Mrs. Lee acquiesced to once their exams were finished. Between making Christmas cards and decorations, playing Christmas trivia games, teaching Christmas vocabulary, and for their grand finale class (my last class of the semester with them) I treated them to mini candy canes (in order to teach them what ‘peppermint’ tastes like) and some Christmas cookies, while we watched a Mr. Bean Christmas episode during which I quizzed them on the vocabulary I’d dutifully been teaching them the past weeks, such as ‘ornament,’ ‘stuffing,’ and ‘reindeer,’ we all had a lot of fun. I especially enjoyed introducing the word and concept of ‘mistletoe’ to my kids, courtesy of the new Justin Bieber song. I found some fun YouTube clips (check out Kisseltoe on YouTube) that depicted exactly what I wanted to convey, but I’m afraid that despite my efforts, some of them may believe that all we do in December is kiss each other every time we walk into a room. Hence, the third grade boys loudly exclaimed that they wanted to move to America for the month of December. At least now they understand the reference. The conclusion of the semester the day before Christmas Eve was fitting, and we ended the week with a fantastic teacher dinner at a seafood restaurant. It was sad saying goodbye to my third graders, however, as I likely won’t see them again except for random meetings in town or at the bus stop. I got pictures with each class and gave them my e-mail address – hopefully I can receive a surprise e-mail here and there in the future. It will be strange to not have them around next year, but I suppose that’s just part of being a teacher.

Outside of the classroom, I attended my second round of Korean class this winter every Saturday morning, which was a lot easier than my first time around, even though I was a level ahead. All the practice and listening exposure I get at school has paid off over the past year – I’m really enjoying learning and using the language, and hope to continue taking classes after vacation. During the week, I kept up with my usual routine of swimming, going to the gym, going to book club, and studying at the local coffee shop. Once the cold weather started though, I started staying home more often, taking advantage of my cosy warm floor and floor mat, where I worked on Christmas presents and cards while catching up on American TV shows and movies on my computer.

This past weekend all of us expats gathered in Jangheung for Round 2 of Korean Christmas. Like Thanksgiving, we had a good crowd of about sixteen people, all who brought obscene amounts of food, along with a White Elephant gift which we used for a fun gift exchange. We played games, ate lots of food, chatted, played football, and had an all around good time enjoying the festivities. It was great to have so many good friends in my adopted home country to share Christmas with.

If you’re wondering what Koreans do for Christmas, it’s go on a date. Christmas = date day. They treat it like a couple’s holiday, so basically if you’re young and single, you don’t get to celebrate Christmas. The young children might receive presents from ‘Santa,’ and most Christians will go to church on Christmas Eve, but for the most part, it’s shopping, going to the movies, and going out to eat for Korean Christmas. Some families will have a tree, some families will make cookies, and it’s popular to buy a ‘Christmas cake’ from a local bakery and eat that with your friends and family for Christmas – kind of like a glorified Valentine’s Day. If you think about it, there weren’t even Christians in Korea until the late 1800s, and during the Japanese occupation (until 1945) most Christian activity was underground or secret, so the concept of Christmas has really only been around since the 1950s. Since then, it’s been commercialized, largely by the USA, but also Canada and Europe, so that these days it’s mostly a holiday for show. But hey, most of the kids have a basic understanding of what it is, and it makes me as a Westerner realize how deep the roots of our culture run, which is all the way down to knowing Christmas stories, movies, and origins.


That about covers what I’ve been up to this past month. I have about three weeks of winter camp – four hours a day, about 12 kids each day – to teach, and then I’m off to Seoul to start my vacation. I’ll be flying around Malaysia and Indonesia, concluding in Bali where I’ll be meeting up with my best friend from college. More on that later – I’ll try to update again before I leave for vacation, but if not you’ll be hearing from me when I get back. In the meantime, you all stay safe and warm, and have a fantastic new year! Miss you all!


Above - a snowy Christmas Eve morning, downtown on my way to Korean class. 

A Season of Blessings

Hi everyone! I hope this finds you well and recovering from your week of holiday eating and celebrating. Speaking of holidays, I've got two coming up for you - not to worry, even though I was missing home I was still able to celebrate.

My year has come to a good end, filled with lots of festivities and fun. When November hit, and the leaves exploded into a beautiful
array of fall colors, there was excitement in the air – namely for two end of the year November events. You know what one of them is – can you think of the other one? When I asked my students this, they all answered: School Festival! Then they racked their brains trying to think of the second one – but then all I needed to say was: “America. Turkey.” They got it.

But before we can begin to talk about the Thanksgiving festivities, it was time to get ready for the event of the year: the Changpyeong Middle School Sports Day and School Festival, which took place the day before Korean Thanksgiving. Same as last year, it was an all day event, with sports day in the morning, followed by an afternoon of performances.

Last year I really had no idea what was going on, and I had to awkwardly follow around my co-teachers, asking about what was happening and what was next. I still had fun though. This year, however, I could read the schedule, I had plenty of kids around who felt comfortable enough with me to chat, and I knew what to expect.

I came to school that day prepared for a morning of outdoor activity: two layers of pants, shirts, a sweatshirt, scarf, and a blanket. As I walked down the hall to the teacher’s office one of my kids told me: “You look like polar bear.” Well, polar bears are warm, right? Here is me in my polar bear motif with one of my students and my dear co-teacher, Mrs. Lee.





The day started off with some stretching, then team division, (blue vs white team – guess which team I rooted for) and we started off with some 100 meter dashes, which yielded some surprising results – I had no idea some of those kids were so fast! Then the groups split off into badminton, T-ball, and kickball, which I was free to wander and observe at any time. I bopped around, chatting to different groups of kids and taking lots of pictures. After the first round of games were finished, it was time for the boys to play soccer and the girls to play a Korean game involving throwing a ball and standing in a square like formation – with some running from one side to another in between. Obviously, I didn’t really understand it, and chose to watch most of the soccer game, which included all of my boys who always wished they were playing soccer instead of in my English class. This time I got to see them strut their stuff, and it was fun cheering them on. The morning concluded with team against team tug of war, and then finished off with an all grades, twelve person relay race. The blue team won!


After a hearty meal of bibimbap (just like last year) and some downtime, it was time for the afternoon of performances. Each class did a performance of various types – the first graders did a skit, three of them did a song and dance, one group did a gag skit, and the last group of third graders did a rap/song. In between individuals and groups performed. I was so impressed by some of my students, mostly because they are so shy in my classes, but when they performed they were amazing. The third grade boys did a K-Pop girl group dance to one of the hit songs of the year, complete with girl costumes. Four of my first grade girls, two of whom are horribly shy, rocked another K-Pop girl group song and dance, which you could tell they had rehearsed endlessly, as it was spot on. One of my favorite performances was when one of my third grade (ninth grade) boys performed a duet with one of his friends – this kid not only gets top grades, speaks English really well, is a superstar soccer player, had just won two running races that morning, but he has a phenomonal voice, unbeknowst to me – I started tearing up when I heard him. Of course, this kid is a hotshot, and tries to kick his soccer ball around during my unsupervised extra classes, resulting in my ‘angry face,’ but still, I had to admire him. What a talented group of kids I have the privilege to work with.

When the last performance came, I was sad to have the day end. One of the third grade classes was up, the rapping group, and when they were finished there was the usual round of applause. But they weren’t finished – to our surprise the song transitioned, and all of a sudden some of them ran off the stage and started grabbing the teachers to drag them onstage. Bewildered, we all stood on stage with them, not knowing what was going on, as they started holding up signs and giving us paper carnation pins. I’m sure the Korean teachers figured it out before I did, but it wasn’t until one of the kids (the hotshot kid, actually) came from backstage with a lighted cake and the students all started singing that I realized they were doing a thank you song to the teachers, as they were part of the graduating class and would be leaving the next month. It was so sweet of them! The signs spelled out “Teachers Thank You” and the carnation pins were to show respect and honor towards teachers (it’s a popular flower to give on Teacher’s Day and Parent’s Day.) And the cake? Obviously it was for the teachers to share, right? Well, that’s what I thought too, but the kids ended up having some fun with it instead. As soon as the song ended what did they do? On cue they all reached their fingers in the cake, scooped up some frosting, and wiped it on the teachers’ faces. Cake war: On.

The festival was over, and the third graders proceeded to smear every last bit of the cake frosting on the teachers and mostly on each other – it was great. Lots of fun pictures, and lots of getting back at students. Okay, just a little getting back at them. More of them getting back at me…(Oh, and I promise the kid next to me does like me...he wasn't ready for the picture. Me and my third graders, post-cake cleanup.)
Prior to School Fest I was feeling a little burned out – I was homesick, the weather was getting colder, and I was dragging my heels a bit with the everyday routine of teaching. But throughout that day I was so revitalized by the energy and enthusiasm of my students – they were having a blast, and it was contagious. I got to hang out with some of my favorite students, I watched soccer sitting on the sidelines with them, we shared blankets to keep warm, and best of all, they enjoyed talking to me and explaining parts of the day. I was beaming – my job as an English conversation teacher had turned into so much more with these kids – I felt like their friend, and they had accepted me as such, even though they had to use English to communicate. I was excited but sad to have just a month left to spend with some of them. It sure gave me a lot to be thankful for. Transition into Thanksgiving…

The week of Thanksgiving I enjoyed enthusiastically teaching middle schoolers about turkey, pumpkin pie, Pilgrims, and stuffing. I received some creative responses such as “ Columbus!” or “Abraham Lincoln!” when I asked who the first people to live in America were, and I had to agree with their bewildered looks when I showed them a couple of YouTube clips about Black Friday. “Why, teacher, why so early?” “I really don’t know, kids.”

We also made some Thanksgiving hand turkeys, which garnered some creative responses. Here are some to give you an idea of what my Korean middle schoolers are especially thankful for:


Of course, talking about Thanksgiving all week was making me quite homesick, but I enjoyed Skyping at 6 AM with the family back home – at least this year Reed didn’t wave a piece of pumpkin pie at me in front of the computer. I happily reminded everyone that next year I will be home for Thanksgiving, and tried to transition my thoughts of homesickness to thoughts of excitement for my own Korean Thanksgiving coming up.

Similar to the year before, this year our gathering consisted of nearly twenty people in one apartment – one of the guys from my orientation last year graciously volunteered to host it this year. We dug into one of the more unique Thanksgiving dinners that I’ve had, complete with pumpkin curry soup, Thai pasta salad, cocktail meatballs, and chips and salsa. Though we lacked a turkey, we at least had some chicken, mashed potatoes, stuffing, rolls, vegetables, and plenty of pie and sweets. As always, the most important part was the good company – I enjoyed chatting and catching up with my group from last year, as well as some of the newer teachers. We even had the downloaded football game from Thanksgiving playing on the big screen – it just about felt like Thanksgiving, even from 2,000 miles away.




I was especially thankful for: my safe, happy and healthy life in Korea, the opportunities and experiences I’ve had since living abroad, my students, my co-workers, my wonderful friends in Korea, and everyone I love back home and can’t wait to see again next year. So many blessings!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Fall 2011

Hello everyone! How are you doing? I hope you're getting in the holiday spirit, especially those back home in MN and WI - bundling up, putting antifreeze in your car, getting overloaded with fake Santas and red decorations...

I'm starting to feel the effects of mid-November over here as well, as this week was the first I've worn my winter coat since March. Also, my most recent Starbucks brew coffee was served to me in a bright red, cheery, snowflaked Starbucks cup - a sure sign of the imminent winter and holiday season. As I begin to spend more nights sitting on my warm floor mat and sleeping with my heater on, the familiar anticipation of the end of the year has begun to settle in.

My friend Sara recently did a photo-a-day blog project for one week, where she chose one picture from each day of the week to most typically depict a week of living in Korea as an English teacher. It was an excellent project, (if you'd like to see it click here,) and it inspired me to do something similar. I thought back to last year when my weekends were packed full of sightseeing, visiting friends, exploring new parts of Korea, and of course, coming home exhausted. I've still been keeping myself busy and have some experiences that I'd like to share with you, but this week I decided to take things a little slower, as that's how I've really been enjoying my Korea life these days: by slowing down. I look forward to my weekends spent at home. I stay in on Friday nights and prefer going to Pilates class than going out for drinks. I hang out at the local coffee shops in my area instead of feeling the need to go downtown all the time. So in the spirit of taking it slow, I'm going to talk about my fall one day at a time, with just one or two pictures instead of a million, and keep the description shorter than usual. You can check back each day if you're interested, or just read them all at once on Thanksgiving if you miss me too much. ;)

First up: The Mokpo Zombie Hash Run.

A week before Halloween the fall weather was in full bloom, with glorious leaves, warm sunshine, and a cool breeze. Picture yourself out enjoying the Saturday afternoon with your family, perhaps sharing a picnic in a park gazebo, or playing with your kids on the playground. Now picture about 30 foreigners dressed as zombies, complete with face paint and ripped up clothing, running past you at full speed. If you happened to be in Mokpo, South Korea on October 23rd, chances are pretty good that's what you saw.

I didn't participate in the run, as my zombie skills weren't quite up to par, but I helped Sara and Jason lay out the 5k running course prior to the run. Basically, a hash run (I had never heard of these before I came to Korea) is when there is a group of runners, usually dressed according to theme, who have a bit of a mystery to solve as they run a predetermined route. The run is just for fun, as the group has to stick together, and the afterparty, once the run is complete, more than makes up for any slight discomfort the runners may have felt during the run. It's up to the hares, the route designers, to lay clues to indicate which way the hashers have to run once they reach certain checkpoints. In the spirit of zombies and Halloween, Jason and Sara decided to lay the trail with bloody handprint clues. Or did zombies really attack? Who knows.

All in all, it was a fun day to enjoy the fall weather, good camaraderie,  and yet another event that proved to Koreans just how strange foreigners are. Success? I think so.

Next up: "Halloween Week"

I don't know if I say enough how lucky I am to have the co-teachers I do, but I am. To prove this to you, whenever there is a western holiday coming up, they allow me to disregard the book lessons for the week and just have a 'fun lesson' day, in honor of my holiday. Of course, it might help teach the kids a little something, but mostly it is just a nice excuse to enjoy English in a different, more fun way. Especially when it involves a holiday that circulates around candy.











For Halloween this year, each class of mine consisted of an overview of the holiday on the board:

Q: "Okay you guys, so what do we do for Halloween in America?" A: "Candy!"

Q: "Very good. Now, what do we say to get candy?" A: "Give me candy?"

"No, if you say 'Give me candy' on Halloween you get punched in the face."

"Really?"

"No. But that's not what we say."


Following the Q and A, we watched a prank video, I taught them a bit about the origins of Dracula and Frankenstein (and may I point out that a couple of my high level students knew that Frankenstein is actually the name of the doctor and not the monster - impressive) and then we played the annual Halloween PowerPoint game that of course resulted in candy.

In my after school classes, which involve just a small group of kids and me - no co teacher - I tried to recreate a typical school Halloween party, minus the costumes. We colored pictures, played pin the wart on the witch, watched 'Thriller' and listened to the 'Monster Mash,' did some word activities  and then I brought out the finale: plain sugar cookies, accompanied with icing in different fall colors to use to help decorate them. One student told me: "I wish every day was Halloween!" 

As for me, I didn't partake in any Halloween activities this year, as I wasn't feeling the greatest that day and decided not to make the trip to Mokpo. However, I got my share of Halloween the whole week with my kids, and enjoyed showing pictures of jack-o-lantern contests, scaring them with a prank Halloween video, and even recieving a Halloween scare from one of my students who snuck up behind me while I was showing a clip from Dracula - he got me good. I even gave him a high five for it, realizing I shouldn't have let them find out how easily startled I am. Perhaps some Koreans think Halloween is a silly holiday, but I definitely had fun bringing a little holiday spirit to the classroom.

Continuing on: My co-worker got married.

And luckily, I was invited to the wedding. The secretary at our school, who, prior to October 29th, was part of our little group of under-30-unmarried-girl teachers (pictured,) married her longtime boyfriend in a modern Korean wedding ceremony.

This was a very interesting experience for me, as it combined many elements of Western weddings, yet retained a definite Korean feel.

The event took place at a 'wedding hall,' which is basically the most efficient way to get Korean couples in and out within a couple of hours. Yes, that's right. Hours. Fastest wedding in the East - I arrived at 1 PM, ate the lunch buffet, watched the ceremony, took some pictures, and left at 3 PM.

Sounds pretty standard, right? Well it was actually quite different than you might expect. Let's start with the wedding hall. I met my teachers outside and walked into a giant room filled with people mulling about. Look to your right, you see lots of people hanging out, chatting, etc. Look to your left, you see a wedding ceremony going on. There is no door, there is no sound blocking system, and there is no guest control - anyone can just walk in and hang out, if they're feeling particulary sentimental and want to watch the happy festivities of people they don't know.

After we entered, we found the sign announcing the bride and groom's name, then walked in to see Miss Jeong sitting like a princess in her pretty, fluffy, white dress. She reminded me of a life size doll for show and tell - the purpose of her in the room was to take pictures with her family and friends, so there was a photographer on hand for anyone who wanted to run up there and congratulate her (the picture I included of the four of us was in this room.)

Next, the guests all ate lunch together. Sure, that's to be expected, right? Nope - when I say guests, I mean all the guests who come to the wedding hall that day - as in four or five sets of wedding guests. Traditionally Koreans don't give actual wedding gifts, just gifts of money, so when the teachers went to present their envelope of money to the wedding hall people, we recieved meal coupons in return, and were then ushered upstairs to the buffet hall. The buffet was interesting - an assortment of raw meat and fish, seafood, dozens of kimchis, lots of noodle and rice dishes, sushi, fruits, vegetables, and soups. And dessert? Rice cake. A delicious meal, but a little rushed, as we only had 20 minutes to eat before the allotted ceremony time. Who did we sit by? It didn't matter - other teachers were sitting across the room at different tables!

Or so I thought - when I checked my watch and questioned the start time, the response was "oh yes, it is time, but we will wait for Miss Yoo - she is still hungry and is getting more food." So ten minutes later, when all of our stomachs were satisfied, we tromped back downstairs for the ceremony.

As it turned out, it was a good thing I'm not very good at understanding Korean, because I could barely hear what was going on. The official - a monk, as both the bride and groom are Korean Buddhist - spoke in a microphone the whole time, which helped for the people up front...but not so much for the people in back who were chatting, controlling kids, and - yes, I witnessed it - answering their cell phones. However, this was the perfect opportunity for me to ask my co-teachers to explain what was going on. Basically at a wedding hall everything is taken care of - you just provide the people, the official, and the dress. After the two stood at the altar for about twenty minutes, they turned and walked together to the pews. Then there was a series of bowing, first to his parents, then to her parents, to recieve a blessing. After that, two of the guests sang to the new couple while the photographer went nuts, and then the couple walked down the aisle together. Oh, and they wheeled in a cake to cut together, take a picture with, then wheeled back out.

After they tromped down the aisle, they had to head back to the front to take pictures with the guests - first the family (pictured, most of the immediate family members are wearing hanbok, the traditional Korean clothing,) and then the friends. And that was it! In and out, over and done. I found out later that there is actually a separate traditional Korean ceremony that is done with just the family members - sort of an elaborate tea ceremony complete with wearing traditional clothing and special blessings. However, it takes place in a small little room with no guests to share the moment with. So, in conclusion, the 'white wedding' idea has been adapted from the West and is mostly for show, pictures, and to celebrate the occasion. But hey, the lunch buffet was fantastic, it was a new experience, and it was fun to be there for Miss (now Mrs.) Jeong's special day. Oh, fun fact: when Korean women marry they don't change their last name, but her children will have her husband's last name.

Next Up: 11 K Run

Nope, not a typo. It was only supposed to be a 10 K run...but we all know how much of an overachiever I can be. And how easily I can get lost. 

On a warm, sunny Saturday in early November, some friends and I took a delightful train trip about two hours north of Gwangju to Daejeon, one of the biggest cities in Korea. Our destination was the Gapcheon River, the site of the second annual Gapcheon 10K/5K Run for MS. Some forigner friends of our were the organizers, so we decided to make a weekend of it. I had never done a 10K before, but after returning from the Philippines I decided to make it a goal to finish it in under an hour.

My training plan consisted of a couple of long runs each week, and since I could barely stand the thought of doing that much on a treadmill at the gym, I ventured outside to the neighborhood across the street, and found it delightful to run around in. I looked forward to my long runs after school in the cool fall air - it was a nice change from swimming, and I gradually built up my endurance to more than I ever expected. I was ready.

The first two thirds of the run went well, and with my K-Pop keeping me company I rather enjoyed it. It hurt, of course, but I was keeping a steady pace and wasn't dying. Then disaster struck. The course of the race was down the left side of the river, then across a bridge to the other side, circling around a little island thing, and then one more bridge across to circle back to the finish line. Sounds simple, right? Well it sure would have been if the turns had been marked properly. Though I knew I had to turn off at a bridge after the looming HomePlus on the other side of the river, the organizers failed to mention that it wouldn't be marked, nor that there wouldn't be someone posted there to announce the turn. At this point, I was far enough ahead and far enough behind to be out of sight of anyone...and I missed the turn to cross the bridge, instead proceeding towards the next bridge. It was only after about two minutes that I realized there was no plausible way to cross the bridge ahead of me, so I started looking around and pulling out my earphones, hoping to hear somebody yelling at me. Nope, no luck.

Finally someone on a bike came by and pointed me back towards the first bridge - I assumed he had seen all the other runners behind me at that point - so I turned around and made it to the bridge, then finished the course. Though angry at myself, I was cheered up by a friend of mine who saw me run and guessed at my pace - if I had finished the race without missing the turn I would have reached my goal time. All in all, it was a great experience - and hey, now I know that it'll be easier the next time around. I was still fuming about two hours after the race though. 

Also, that night in Daejeon we had an afterparty/awards ceremony at a fantastic Mexican restaurant ran by Americans. Then I met up with my old Mankato East high school diver/fellow lifeguard friend Rachel, who had just arrived in Daejeon this past August. It was a fun blast from the past, and we enjoyed catching up.



Thursday, October 13, 2011

Fall 2011 - Philippines and festivals.

Hello everyone! I hope this finds you well and enjoying the fall weather. We’re right in the midst of it here in Korea – cooler temps, a multitude of colors, and early sunsets. And of course, the pages on the calendar are flying by on hyperspeed – I can’t believe it’s already the middle of October. Here’s a little taste of what I’ve been enjoying from my desk window (my desk got moved next to the window.) Korea is so beautiful in the fall.









I’ve settled down a bit now, after a whirlwind of trips that I can’t even remember all of right now. My students just finished taking their midterm tests last week, which means that Gina Teacher only has 9 weeks left with her third (ninth) grade students – yikes. I’m going to be so sad when they leave. In the meantime, I’ve returned to my weekly routine, for the most part, which consists of studying Korean, seeing friends, going to the gym, coffee shopping, (remember, I made that into a verb?) and going to book club during the week. In addition, I’ve thrown in some extra running workouts – I went ahead and signed up for my first 10K run on the 5th of November.

But before I tell you more about my fall I want to backtrack to last month, when two of my friends and I made a last minute getaway to a spectacular beach vacation on Boracay Island, Philippines. We knew we had five days off, (for the Korean Thanksgiving holiday, Chuseok) and we knew we wanted a beach. After eliminating Jeju Island for the mad dash of people who were apparently heading there, we settled on Busan, but then discovered some great flight deals to Manila. We grabbed the flights, found a package hotel deal, and booked it within three weeks of flying out.

Well, it turned out that one of the stipulations of the low price was a rough travel itinerary – we left Gwangju Saturday morning, hung out at the Incheon Airport til about 4 PM, flew out then transferred in Beijing, and slept at the Manila airport to wait for the earliest flight out to Kalibo Airport the next morning. From Kalibo it was an hour bus ride to Caticlan Ferry Port, then a short ferry to Boracay, followed by another little bus trip to our hotel. Twenty seven hours after leaving Gwangju, we were at our destination: The Nigi Nigi Nu Noos resort. No, I’m not kidding. Part of the reason we chose this hotel was because of the name.

Okay, so now imagine you are hot, tired, and exhausted from 27 hours of travel. After getting jerked around on a little zip bus, you are now following a fast walking Filipino down a narrow sandy path to get to your hotel. Palm trees emerge. You see a little hut selling freshly bl
ended fruit smoothies directly in front of you. You look a little to the left of the fruit hut and see…the most beautiful beach you’ve ever seen in your life.

Is your jaw dropping? Because mine definitely was – all of ours were. What hit me immediately were all of the different hues of beautiful blue in the water – it was unbelievable. We had no idea what we were in for when we booked this trip – we just thought it would be a nice beach, the perfect place to relax. Well, after booking the tickets we did a little more research and discovered it had been named the second best beach in the world by TripAdvisor. This was not just a beach. I didn’t even know places like Boracay existed, except in postcards. Needless to say, we were beyond excited when we saw the beach, and then even more than beyond (which is…what?) excited when we saw the Nigi Nigi, (fondly known as the Nig or the Nigster to us - please don't take offense.) Not only was it right on the beach, but also it was actually a compilation of Polynesian style beach huts instead of a standard hotel. Yup, that’s right, beach huts.

We were definitely awake
at this point. After a quick check in, a change of clothes, and a delicious lunch at the Nigi Nigi beachfront restaurant, (complete with our complimentary welcome drinks) we were ready to hit the beach! The water was amazing, crystal clear for hundreds of meters, and the perfect temperature. The sun was shining, the waves were crashing, and we had three beach chairs with our names on them. We were definitely on vacation.





Honestly, the next three days were a combination of laying out in the sun, eating at some fantastic restaurants, (our dinner at the Greek restaurant was complete with a flaming papaya for dessert) doing lots of souvenier shopping, swimming in the ocean, eating fresh fruit and shakes, and relaxing. I wish I could tell you more exciting stories...but aside from our nightly rounds to check out the Boracay nightlife (one of the highlights was the Full Moon Beach Party...but I'm not going to get into that) we didn't really do much else. We came for the beach, and we soaked up as much beach as we could. Our hotel deal included a complimentary pizza dinner, beachfront of course, and free breakfast every day, so aside from that we were pretty well taken care of! Mostly we just marveled at our luck for being there and having the opportunity to travel to so many wonderful places in Asia. Our heated travel discussions were pretty intense, as we all tried to figure out where we wanted to go and what we wanted to do after Korea.

One of my favorite parts of the trip was when I woke up early one morning, put on my training suit and swim cap, and went out for a morning swim. The water was calm and still, and I did a mix of swimming laps and diving down to check out all the fish that were swimming around on the coral reefs. I saw hundreds of tiny, bright colored fish, some sea urchins, and even a starfish during my morning expedition! To contrast completely, my other favorite was my Starbucks afternoon, when I gleefully discovered a two floor Starbucks - a classic sign of tourism - but hey, it combined two of my favorite things in life: coffee and a beach. The one regret that I have is not spending much time soaking up Filipino culture or even cuisine, since we were so isolated in tourist-ville, but that just makes another excuse to have to return. One cultural item we did pick up on right away, however, is how incredibly warm, friendly, and welcoming the Filipino people are - we met some truly genuine people who were happy to help us and really pleasant to talk to - it was nice being around people who speak English again as well.

Though the return trip was just as grueling as the first one (overnight in Manila, all day layover in Beijing, late night arrival in Seoul, four hour bus to Gwangju, then about three hours of sleep before waking up and teaching that Friday) we survived and came through as better people for it. We even rallied and met up in Wando for the annual September Wando beach party that Friday evening, after, as Sara put it, "not sleeping for three days." Our night in Manila proved to be more interesting than we thought it would be - we were all bracing for a restless night in a sketchy Manila airport with our safety caps on high alert - but on Boracay we ended up meeting an American who was living in Manila and recommended a shopping mall complex for us to kill time and hang out at until we had to head over to the airport. He reassured us it was safe - we figured we could check it out and return to the airport as soon as we felt uncomfortable. Well, we ended up not wanting to leave. The Green Belt, as the complex was called, ended up being an incredibly modern, huge, classy, fancy shopping complex complete with brand name stores, fantastic restaurants, coffee shops, bars, and even a few dance
clubs. We were amazed, and spent a happy night eating Southeast Asian cuisine, wandering around until shops closed, and drinking coffee (or napping in the coffee shop's cozy chairs) until 2 AM. Clearly we hadn't done our research on modern-day Manila and we had just been relying on our previous perceptions based off media reports and stories to assume it was dangerous all over. It was a good lesson to learn - you can't judge a book by its cover until you open it and dive in.

Now, with November fast approaching, Boracay seems like a dream away, but it was definitely the best beach vacation I've ever had. I'm looking forward to exploring more of Southeast Asia's beaches next February when I take off for my winter vacation, but more on that later. After Boracay, my weekends have consisted of teaching and judging at an English camp, participating in Gwangju's festival parade and experiencing a Korean traditional game, seeing my favorite K-Pop group in concert, visiting Steve and Mary up in Seoul, relaxing and enjoying the fall weather in Gwangju, and most recently celebrating Sara's birthday in Jangheung with a few of our closest friends. See if you can guess which picture corresponds to what. This weekend I'm heading off to Mokpo for a 'hash run,' then next weekend I'm attending my secretary's wedding (my first Korean wedding) before going back to Mokpo to celebrate Halloween. I can barely keep up with myself, but rest assured I'm enjoying every minute of everything in between teaching and hanging out with my wonderful kids.

Until next time, I hope you all enjoy the remainder of fall and enjoy the Halloween holiday before October is gone! Oh, and someone please drink a Starbucks pumpkin spice latte for me - apparently Korean Starbucks haven't caught on to the best fall drink in the world yet. I'll have to write them a letter. Take care, love you and miss you all.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Japanese Odyssey Part 2

Hello everyone – I hope you had a wonderful Labor Day weekend and are recharging your batteries to get ready for fall. The weather has definitely turned to fall here in Korea – cooler nights and mornings, a little earlier than usual – I’m not sure if I’m ready to cool down that much yet, but it’s definitely much more pleasant to be outside now. I spent this past weekend in Jangheung visiting Sara and met her friend Alyssa – it’s a good thing we all got along well because they will be my travel buddies next week as we jet off to the Philippines for vacation on Saturday. We got some cheap last minute tickets, a nice hotel deal, and timed it out so that we’ll spend about four days on Boracay Island in the Philippines – we’re planning not to do anything that doesn’t involve laying on the beach, reading on the beach, sleeping on the beach, listening to music on the beach, eating delicious fruit on the beach, drinking on the beach, and…swimming. That’s it. I’ll let you know how it goes.

But for now, I have to finish telling you about Japan. I left off as I was just about to reach Takayama after my many mishaps in Yokohama – I was so thrilled to be on the last mode of transportation to my destination. I’ll recap for you: missed a train, got on the wrong train, then fell asleep and almost missed my stop. I’d say I deserved a break. But, lo and behold, what happened on my last train of the day? Delays. We were stuck at almost every stop for a good twenty minutes each, arriving at least an hour behind schedule. Go figure. Definitely not my best train day. But hey, I made it! Takayama was a cute little mountain town up in the Japanese Alps – so small that I was easily able to walk to my hostel from the train station (after getting a little lost, of course – that’s just a given.) I had paid the most money for the hostel in Takayama ($30 a night,) but I must say, it was well worth it. After a nice hot shower I happily pulled my personal bunk bed curtains shut, ready to explore Takayama in the morning.

Because I was slightly blown off course and ended up visiting Yokohama a day later than I planned, I really just had one full day in Takayama before heading out to Kyoto/Nara the next day. Therefore, I had to fit as much in as I could. I started off the day with a yummy coffee and toast breakfast at a nearby café, then decided to explore by bike, thanks to my hotel’s cheap rental bikes. Again, Takayama is pretty small, so I was able to cover most of the adorable little town in an hour or so – ended up finding a little hiking trail that brought me hiking up to the top of one of the hills behind the village, the former location of Takayama Castle. Beautiful views.

After lunch, I headed to the station to catch a 15 minute bus to the next stop on my list. Takayama’s highlight and main tourist draw is the nearby Hida Folk Village, which is basically an open air museum of different architectural styles of the traditional Japanese mountain houses. They moved houses from their original locations across the region, the most impressive being the three story thatched roof Sato house (pictured behind me, to the right.) The museum was really well done, with lots of information, some hands on activities along the route for kids, and the opportunity to walk around inside the houses and see what it would have been like to live there. There were also a lot of random artifacts, like a woodcutter’s hut, an old icebox, and an old game made from rocks that were placed along the walk to give a better depiction of what life was like for the villagers. I spent a good two hours walking around, learning a ton, and enjoying the fresh mountain air – all accompanied by beautiful valley views. Much seemed unchanged up in the Alps – I could easily imagine people still living very similar to their traditional ways. Toward the end of the trail, as I was walking by a small shrine I stopped to read about how the villagers had an old tradition of dressing up their horses and leading them up to the mountain shrine to be blessed every August 9th. I checked my watch. It was August 9th. Might there be a ceremony or festival of some sort that day? I could only hope.

Well, as it turned out, I was in luck. When I got back to the hostel, before I could even ask, I heard the girl at reception telling someone who was checking in that there were fireworks that night. Win. I was planning to meet the British girls that I had met on the train for dinner anyways – now we had an event to head off to afterwards. The fireworks turned out to be way cooler than regular fireworks – they were actually part of the annual handheld bamboo fireworks festival. There were about six guys who rotated, for a good hour and a half, standing out on the river platforms and shooting fireworks out of bamboo holders – they had this whole routine with yelling and posing and counting – it was incredible to watch. I don’t know how they didn’t blow their faces off or at the very least burn themselves. In between the setups they shot off regular fireworks too while the whole town crowded around the riverbanks to watch the fun.

The next day I had to head out bright and early on the first train to Kyoto from Takayama. Again, because I had the JR Pass I wanted to take advantage of the rail on every day that I could, so even though I was staying in Kyoto for five nights, I was spending the first two days on day trips, followed by three days of hanging out in Kyoto. My first day trip was to Nara, just about a half hour from Kyoto, to spend the day exploring the medieval remnants of Japan’s first imperial capital city. Established in 710, Nara is a beautifully preserved historical mother lode of early Japanese Buddhist art, architecture, and temples.

When I arrived at the station, I stored my backpack and hopped on a bus to Nara Park, the main area with all of the temples and attractions. I had heard about wild deer being one of the main features of Nara Park, but I didn’t really realize just how many there would be – or how wild they really were. These deer were everywhere, and they certainly weren’t shy – they came right up to the tourists, mostly looking for food, usually allowing themselves to be pet. If they didn’t like someone, they let them know in a hurry by nipping at them, or sniffing around them for food. I learned this the hard way – was afraid one of them was going to rip my skirt. I quickly made friends by buying some of the deer cookies and feeding them, however. Then they let me pose with them. This one on the right was my friend, but the one on the left was most definitely not: the piece of paper in his mouth is my museum pamphlet that I had been reading on a bench when this guy very rudely came up behind me and took it out of my mouth. I tried to get it back from him…but I was scared of his antlers. So I took a picture instead; then threw it away when he dropped it. How rude.

One of my favorite parts of Nara was the fantastic Buddhist art museum, which had dozens of statues and sculptures, some even from China and Korea, which is how Buddhism arrived in Japan in the 5th and 6th centuries. It was also a nice break from the heat. My other favorite part was the Giant Buddha, or Daibutsu, housed in the Todai-ji Temple, the largest wooden building in the world, even though it is only one third of its original size, due to past fires. The current structure dates back to the 1700s, but original construction began in the 8th century. It was incredibly impressive, as well as the immaculate grounds of Nara Park. It was a great day outside, albeit super hot, and I enjoyed wandering around (in the shade) and people watching. I began to notice tiny little white lanterns set up along the park’s walkways, and when inquiring at the museum about them I learned that there was to be a lantern festival that night, in preparation for the O-bon festival, the festival when all of the dead spirits supposedly return to their ancestral homes. The lights help them find their way home. I was in luck yet again – I just had to stick around until 7. I found refuge inside the shopping arcade and had fun poking around – when I finally stepped outside in the dusky light I discovered that Nara Park had been transformed into a sort of fairy land, with hundreds of tealights and lanterns lining the paths. I wondered how they managed to stay intact without the deer bothering them. I had a lovely walk around in the warm summer air, taking pictures of the heart and flower designs on the lawn. As I headed back to the train station I discovered that the lights weren’t just in Nara Park – they were scattered throughout the town as well. Everyone was out to see or be seen, many of the women wearing beautiful summer kimono-like outfits. (I learned that the summer outfits aren’t called kimono, but they look very similar.) I returned to my Kyoto hostel late that evening, reflecting again on how lucky I had gotten with two summer festival nights in a row.

The final day of my rail pass was spent hiking it out to Hiroshima, about a two hour journey from Kyoto. I’m sure I don’t need to remind you of the significance of Hiroshima, but I remembered reading Sakado and the Thousand Paper Cranes, about a young girl afflicted with leukemia from the radiation, who folded one thousand paper cranes with the hope it would help her to live. Unfortunately, she passed away the following year, but her story has forever remained a piece of my heart, and I’ve always wanted to go see the memorial site in Hiroshima ever since.

I arrived at the Hiroshima train station late morning and decided to save Peace Park for the afternoon – instead I hopped on another short local train to Miyajima – a small island right outside of the city – that I had a free ferry ticket for due to my JR Pass. All I knew about Miyajima was that it had a famous ‘floating’ torii gate on the water, along with a famous shrine. That’s it. I’d like to think of it as paralleling Odysseus and his island hopping in the Med – he didn’t know where he was going half the time either. I’ve never been more unprepared for a destination in my life, but the Brits had been there a few days before and they said it was worth a visit, so I hopped on the 15 minute ferry and found myself in a cute little port crawling with tourists. I was able to see the torii gate from the ferry, but realized that it wasn’t exactly floating at the moment, due to my arrival at low tide. Oops. No matter – that meant I could walk out in the surf and touch the gate. I saw the temple, the pagoda, and the dozens of tourist shops that all began to look the same. Oddly enough, there were tons of wild deer hanging out there as well - two days of deer in a row. At least none of them ate my pamphlet this time. It was a beautiful little island, famed for its contrast between the bright red vermillion shrine, the intense green of the trees, and the brilliant blue water.

Back in Hiroshima, I decided to walk my way over to Peace Park and the museum by way of the riverside and the downtown. I was also on a mission: to try okinomiyaki, a famous Japanese dish consisting of a thin pancake on the bottom, with a bunch of grilled vegetables, meat, seafood, and a friend egg thrown over it, topped off with special okinomiyaki sauce. It was so famous in Hiroshima that there was even an ‘Okinomiyaki Street’ downtown. When I spotted that on the map I made that my first destination, and set off along the riverside to make my way downtown. Though I had seen pictures of Hiroshima before and after the bombing, I had never realized that the city consisted of two rivers diverging into one down the center of the city (see below, photo courtesy of Google Images.) Actually, this distinctive meeting of the two rivers is what the US military was aiming for when dropping the bomb, as it was an obvious target. As I walked along the river, there was something about the city that I couldn’t quite put my finger on, something about the air and the views and the river and the trees contrasting with the buildings. Then it hit me: Hiroshima was absolutely beautiful. All my life I’d had images of a flat, gray city bombed to pieces – there had never been any reason for me to think otherwise. But I was wrong – Hiroshima deserves a ton of credit for rebuilding their city into a beautiful place of hope and peace. They had overcome the worst of the worst atrocities a city can experience in such a wonderful way. Immediately my perspective changed, and I opened myself up more to enjoying Hiroshima, instead of the somber experience I had planned for.

And enjoy myself I did. The okinomiyaki was fantastic – I enjoyed watching them make it on the huge burner right in front of me. Yes, I ate the whole thing. After lunch I walked over to the Peace Park vicinity, which included the museum, the memorial cenotaph, and the A-Bomb Dome, among other memorial statues and gardens. As I was waiting for the light to change, I noticed a Japanese woman across the street from me crying in a tissue – she was leaving Peace Park. Oh boy, I thought, here we go. This wasn’t going to be an easy visit, was it. Wait – can anyone tell I’m American? I started with the museum, which was very well done – what I liked most about it is that instead of laying blame and hate on America, the museum instead focused on the facts, the results, and most importantly, the hope for peace and for the demolition of all nuclear warfare. Some of the pictures were so gruesome I couldn’t look at them, but the artifacts were so interesting – the watch that stopped when the bomb went off, the shadow that was imprinted on the stone stairs, and the wall stained with black rain. I saw a handful of Sakado’s real paper cranes, and learned about some of the horrible radiation effects for generations to come. Peace Park was equally as well done, structured tastefully and strategically, just a few km away from the hypocenter of the bomb. I could give you dozens and dozens of more facts, but I’ll leave that to you to look up on your own. Overall, the personal effect Hiroshima had on me was of course somber, but also hopeful, as I was so glad I was able to witness firsthand how the city had recovered from the terrible tragedy of war and turn it into a living, breathing monument of optimism. I returned to Kyoto that night exhausted, emotionally drained, but enlightened.

So, after having gotten my money’s worth probably about three times over, I was done with the JR Pass – time to take things down a notch in Kyoto. Of course, Kyoto has a lot of things to see, but at least I didn’t have to see them all at hyperspeed. The next three days were spent walking all around the city – I saw so many temples and shrines I lost track (I also became a temple snob – if I hadn’t heard of it before and I had to pay more than 3 dollars I skipped it,) browsing the shops in their arcade covered downtown streets (along with some coffee shop people watching – always a must in any new city,) exploring an awesome used bookstore with the same books for half the price they had been in Tokyo, and venturing (slash getting lost) out to the outskirts of the city, where residential area meets rice fields. Kyoto is surrounded by hills on three sides, with the train tracks cutting across the fourth side (south) so I was able to cover a lot of ground. The downtown was a lot more fun than I imagined – the temptation to spend lots and lots of money had never been stronger. Before, I had been held back on buying souvenirs for people because of my backpack, but now I was on one of my last stops – I resisted the calls of the tourist shops (one could almost say they were like siren calls) but instead gave in to some of the little cutesy stores for some early Christmas presents. To me, Kyoto was a wonderful mix of cosmopolitan city with traditional Japan, with an emphasis on the beauty of nature. It also possessed a regal air due to its privileged status as the former imperial capital for over a century (exact dates 794 to 1868.) There are 18 World Heritage Sites in Kyoto, most of them Buddhist temples, (I calculated that it would have cost about $100 total to see each Site) and I learned that the United States purposely avoided bombing Kyoto because of its rich cultural heritage and treasures.

They say that the beauty of Kyoto is hidden – found among the quiet neighborhoods, the traditional teahouses, and the peaceful lifestyle of its residents. I’d agree with that based mostly on my exploration of the eastern hills of Kyoto – my favorite afternoon and evening of Kyoto. The beautiful eastern slopes are home to the Philosopher’s Path, Mauryama Park, a handful of temples and shrines, and of course, Gion, the former geisha district. After visiting Nijo Castle in the morning, then purposely parking myself at a coffee shop for a few hours during the hottest part of the day (wanted to do the National Museum, but the main exhibit was closed) I set off to explore the east side of the river from north to south, beginning with the Philosopher’s Path.

I thought the Philosopher’s Path, or Walk of Philosophy, was named for all of the past Japanese philosophers who thought it was a nice place to stroll and muse (philosophize, if you will,) but I learned that it was actually named after just one philosopher, Nishida Kitaro, of Kyoto University, who used it for daily mediation (though I hope he avoided strolling in August – it was still wicked hot at 4 PM.) Regardless, I had a pleasant walk along the canal, staying in the shade, imagining how beautiful it must be in the spring with the cherry blossom trees in bloom. After taking a pit stop to read my book on one of the benches, I continued on south to Maurayama Park. I had just finished a book about an American studying Zen Buddhism in Kyoto a couple of decades before, right in the Maurayama area, so it was fun to see it in person. It was absolutely beautiful, with the sun beginning to come down above the western hills, casting a warm orange glow over the entire park.

In that setting, I hurried to make sure I could still see Gion before it got dark. However, I felt a little guilty for not exploring the hills a little more, as it seemed like there were some great views along the way. Just as this thought passed through my mind, I passed a set of stairs leading up to something I couldn’t see. I decided I would make it up the steps to see what was up there, just so that I didn’t waste an opportunity. I wasn’t disappointed. Just as I was nearing the top of the stairs I was awarded with the view of a huge Buddha-like head sticking out of the trees – and as I got closer I realized it was some sort of temple structure. I paid the three dollar entrance fee and discovered that it was actually a recent Buddha (actually a bodhisattva – a being who has gained enlightenment but has stayed on Earth to help other Buddhists attain enlightenment – but they basically look the same to me) statue, surrounded by a temple dedicated to all the fallen and unknown soldiers in the Second World War. It was so beautiful – I snapped this picture, then about two seconds later the sun went behind some clouds – the magical sunset moment was over. I had been guided by an unseen force to climb those stairs just at the right time. I sat there for a while, looking at the pseudo-Buddha, thinking about how often things had worked out for me in Japan – it really seemed as though I had someone watching over me the whole time. Between navigating myself around Tokyo, figuring out the trains, eventually finding everywhere I needed to be, and timing things out perfectly like the festivals or the sunset, I felt that I wasn’t alone. I always feel closer to God when I’m traveling, probably because He’s the only one who will listen to me (Oh God, please let this be the right train. Please let there be toilet paper. Please let there be a Starbucks right around the corner.) Like Athena helped guide Odysseus through the Mediterranean, God was definitely on my side as I traveled on my journey through Japan. It was a nice feeling.

With the sun going down, there was no time to waste in getting to Gion. I consulted my map, zipped down a few more streets, and arrived along a long covered arcade of shops, titled ‘Welcome to Gion.’ So much for the quiet, beautiful little neighborhoods I had read about and seen in ‘Memoirs of a Geisha.’ I told myself that of course, Japan is so modern now, the traditional areas must be hidden up in the neighborhoods in the hills, which were too dark to search for now. Oh well. I was ready to head back, but all of a sudden I remembered marking a street from my Lonely Planet notes: Shinbashi Bridge, supposed to be ‘one of the most beautiful streets in Kyoto.’ Well, what did I have to lose? I knew I was close, so I found it on the map, oriented myself, and headed that direction. After about ten minutes I realized I went the completely wrong way – go figure. Turned around, went to where I started, and then found the correct path. I cut over a street early, and when I emerged from the alleyway, my eyes were greeted with a wonderful sight: a beautiful wooden teahouse, a bridge over a small canal, trees and twinkling lights everywhere, and people quietly strolling along the paths. It was exactly as I pictured, but even better. What a fun surprise! After I wandered around and took pictures to my heart’s delight, I was rewarded with an extra bonus: along the riverside there were little blue Christmas lights strung up in the trees, with people walking, talking, and enjoying the beautiful night together. I plopped myself down on the riverbank and just sat quietly for a while, looking at the beautiful trees and trying to remember every moment of the day. It's so crucially important to take those transient moments to sit quietly and appreciate, or you'll lose them.

My exit strategy from Kyoto was via an overnight bus to Fukuoka, from where I would ferry back to Busan, Korea on the three hour hydrofoil ferry. However, I had to check out of my hostel in the morning and the bus didn’t leave from Kyoto Station until the evening. I felt that nothing in Kyoto could top the evening before, plus I was exhausted from walking. What was my solution? I spent the day at Kyoto Station – well worth a day of exploring. I did some final browsing for souvenir shops, poked around at all the fancy shops, climbed the stairs up to the ninth floor observatory, (okay, I’m lying – I used the escalator for the last three flights because the stairs disappeared) read my book, and of course, I did some high quality people watching from a second floor coffee shop (see picture.)

The next day I arrived at Hakata Fukuoka Station around 7 AM (fun fact: Japanese bus seats are not big enough for six foot tall people, especially for extended periods of time) and discovered the info desk that would help me find a hostel wasn’t open until 10. Not much was open at the station, so I wandered around the area a bit, and after one of those ‘please God let there be a Starbucks around here’ moments I wasn’t let down: I parked there with some coffee until the office opened up. As always, I was treated with amazing service by the tourist people – I was given a map and directions to a hostel ten minutes from the station before I could say ‘Konichiwa and Arrigato.’ The hostel was close, clean, and conveniently located near the ferry port bus stop, where I would head bright and early the next morning. After spending all day exploring Fukuoka (not too much to see there, but tons and tons of shopping) and pursuing a new purse, since I had beat mine up so much in the past two weeks (success finally came around 7 PM,) when evening came, I was done. Done walking, done touring, done buying things, done studying maps, just done. I was happy, hot and sweaty, my feet were killing me, and I was satisfied. I had done exactly what I came to Japan to do: see the places I’ve wanted to see since I was a little girl, and try to imagine what life might have been like for Mom when she was there. Along the way I had encountered wonderful people, including a voice from the past (well, my mom’s past,) some friendly and hospitable Japanese locals, and some new friends. Japan has always been so close to my heart, and after ten years of dreaming I had finally experienced it.


However, as I boarded the hydrofoil ferry the next morning in Fukuoka, my mom’s birthplace, I was filled with a new sense of excitement. I had seen my mom’s life abroad, learned about the culture she lived in, tried some of the foods she had fallen in love with, seen where she had worked, and even met her boss. But that was her life. I had my own life abroad, which I had created for myself, which I was happier than ever in, and which I was ready to return to. I didn’t have a Penelope waiting for me across the sea like Odysseus did, but I had my wonderful friends, coworkers, and students to return to. I was going back to Korea. I was going home.